For several years I’ve been hearing people talking about the possibility of SSDs dying from too many write cycles. I work in the photography and video production industry where there is massive amounts of write cycles on SSDs and I’ve never heard of a single one wearing out or dying, and that’s after years of daily hard-core use. I’m not saying it can’t happen, but the chances are exponentially greater that you will move on to a different piece of tech before you wear an SSD out.
I’m with Mike: buy the size you need. However, give special consideration to how fast SSDs are and how your speed requirements may or may not change over your expected lifespan for your next MBP.