1.98GB RAM in Windows XP
To answer damago and aneks, I believe the reason XP 32-bit version will not show us more than 1.98Gigs of ram has something to do with boot-camp if this is in fact how you run Windows (don't know much about ram support in other methods such as virtual pc or parallels). Again I am only assuming that you are because I see the exact same thing when I'm running XP on my mac pro.
I recently purchased an additional 2gigs of ram from macramdirect.com which would place me at 3gigs. Right from the start I made sure I had installed them (2 x 1gig) correctly and OS X had no problem reading all 3gigs. Windows, on the other hand, would not. I've tried rearranging the original gig (2 x 512mb) into the second pair of slots and placing the the new (2 x 1gigs) into the first pair and vice versa, with no luck. Still says 1.98gigs.
I've tried the /pae and /3gb switches in the boot.ini file and still no luck.
I tried contacting macramdirect's tech support and they swear that it has something to do with boot camp since it is still in the beta stages. They have heard this problem again and again and claim that they cannot help me any further because their memory is guaranteed to work with macs (or in this case, OS X and not Windows).
This sounds like something that will be resolved over time, maybe when boot camp reaches a closer-to-final stage.
Boards and Risers? Sounds like some people haven't tried and succeeded installing more ram in a mac pro running xp 32-bit. The more immediate issue looks to me like it has a lot more to do with the fact that apple has not perfected the available utilities to make the full shift work.