MacOS is quite different to iOS so you'll see similarities in the experience vs the phone, but they're not the same. Which is to be expected since one is a touch interface and one is a keyboard interface.
Keep reading the forum posts and look out for common M4 issues, is the best thing I'd suggest.
And check the Sequoia forum here ->
https://forums.macrumors.com/forums/macos-sequoia-15.246/
There's lots of good stuff there too.
I remember my first Mac, after using Windows for years, and I couldn't figure out how to uninstall an app. "What?? You just drag it to the trash? It cannot possibly be that simple?!"