It's basically people who 99% of the time piggy back off of rich relatives/high paying jobs pretending they're "self made" and gaining financial independence through investing.
While there are some very lucky people who did it without help, most have help they don't account for. The last news story I saw on this was a couple who "were financially independent by themselves and how anyone could do it!" The catch was they both got really high paying jobs out of college ($250k+) due to connections their parents had, they paid no rent and lived in a house the ones parents owned, their parents paid for their school so they had no student loans, and they invested almost all the money they had. That's completely typical for FIRE stories too.
I 100% disagree.
I feel that many get there by being frugal and living below your means and is definitely possible to achieve for many. The key is saving and investing aggressively and with intent and
not fall into the trap of lifestyle creep that comes with higher wages.
This means no new iPhones/macs/etc each year or even every 3 years. No new cars, No 3000 mountain bikes, no 2000 patio sets, etc despite having a job that can easily afford it.
For me, FIRE is very much an option and we are doing so without any "help" that you allude to.
- Wife and I both paid 100% of our school and had the loans we had to pay back
- Wife and I didn't get any help with housing or downpayment, etc
- We don't have car loans that eat up to 500-900 a month that many have. I drive a used, but reliable truck with over 500k miles on it for instance.
- We don't get the latest gadgets/etc. We buy products, including apple, that are 2-3 years old used and this saves a fortune when we do upgrade devices.
- We have a savings rate of nearly 60-70%
In fact, the biggest worry we have is our parents on both sides have 0 saved for their retirement and will be a challenging decision on how do we handle that or if we can handle that?
My parent's experience with finances is what motivates me not to be in their shoes. You have to take control of your finances. You won't wake up financially independent without making it a point to do so.
If you do the math, saving 100/month for 45 years will make you nearly a millionaire with a 0 starting balance and the historical average returns in the market.
Most people should be able to do this. That 1,000,000 nest egg will then generate 40,000 a year in growth you can take out without ever touching principle based on historical market averages.
I don't know about you, but 40k/yr is definitely a large part of not needing to work