Apple isn't introducing Infiniband protocol support. All Apple is doing is "Infiniband verbs". Really software API calls to networking rather than the actual networking protocol. There is software libraries that layer on top of RDMA to get work done. Infniband is not == to RDMA , but at a more higher software abstraction layer folks have used the 'verbs' associated with the protocol as common ground. ( RDMA on converge Ethernet. RoCE). On Linux there is a 'infiniband verb' library that is a 'standard' library to bind/write to.
The killer IB app anyone wants IB for is RDMA, and IB Verbs is the API applications use to do IB RDMA. So... what exactly are you complaining about?
Yes, yes, you've found a technicality which gives you an excuse to rant about how Apple isn't doing
real IB. But nobody actually cares about that. There's a deep history of doing IB-compatible communications over random interconnects which aren't one of the ones created by the Infiniband Trade Association (IBTA) specifically for IB. The Verbs API provides the abstraction required for this. Software that speaks IBV doesn't have to care whether it's running on top of IB, RoCE, or Thunderbolt.
Speaking of RoCE... it's a great example of how confused you are. If Apple's Thunderbolt RDMA isn't a form of IB, neither is RoCE. It's right there in the acronym - RoCE is RDMA over Converged Ethernet. ("Converged" being corporate IT buzzword speak for "we're running more protocols than just UDP/IP over our ethernet".)
Modern ConnectX connection will 'smoke' Apple's solution.
There already RDMA Ethernet cards for macOS.
What Apple is doing is more of a more affordable ( 4 Studios with point-to-point links to the other 3 nodes ) by avoiding switching and additional latency. But not fastest; not going to hit 100GbE speed let alone 200 or 400.
Nobody cares how bad you think something will 'smoke' something else while completely misunderstanding what this feature is for. There's demand out there for Mac Studio clusters, and the best IO a Studio has is Thunderbolt 5, and therefore the best way to connect such a cluster is TB5. If you can. Which you couldn't before 26.2, but now can.
Sure, prior to this you could attach a true IB or Ethernet NIC to each Studio. But they'd have to be PCIe NICs connected to the Studios through TB5. In such a configuration, TB5's raw performance would still be the theoretical upper limit, but you'd be losing performance to the overheads of the additional protocol stacks. For any cluster small enough to not need network switches, why not cut out as many middleman protocols as you can?
So it just doesn't matter whether there's faster IB or other Verbs RDMA solutions available on other platforms. If you have a need to specifically construct a
Mac Studio cluster, this is the best way to do it. Apple's RDMA doesn't need to offer anything more than that to justify itself, no matter how many irrelevant nitpicks you invent.