The other problem I see is the logic behind your argument. You stated you did not want to have a computer on all the time for constant access to media. Mac Mini is a computer. In order to access its content (not to mention the whole menuing system) you'll have to have it turned on.
I'm well aware that a Mac Mini is a computer, and if you want to get technical, so is AppleTV! It's just a dumbed-down computer that requires me to buy extra equipment or do hacks to enable it to do what I want to do.
What I wanted was:
1) A central place to store all of my MP3's, so my wife and I don't have to keep redundant collections on our MacBooks.
2) User interface via my home theater, not my MacBook.
3) Network storage for non-media files, back-ups and to use with Time Machine
4.) A print server.
The advantage of the AppleTV is this:
In addition to HD rentals and onscreen access to YouTube, Flickr, and tons of podcasts, you can sync your library, or any part of it, to your AppleTV so that when you DON'T have a computer running, AppleTV is still useful...
The only reason I brought up Mac Mini was that somebody suggested I buy that as a server along with Apple TV, since Apple TV can't stream direct from a network hard drive. After reading about Apple TV hacks, I noted that many people are loading Leopard onto it, enabling it for mouse & keyboard, and loading browsers on it for surfing the web. Then I thought, that would be nice to surf the web on my large flat-screen!
So I started thinking Mac Mini. I can get HD "On-Demand" through my cable, so I don't really care about that. Besides, one can download & watch movies from NetFlix or other services. Mac Mini has DVI which can convert to HDMI for video. If I have to fiddle with resolutions, so, I'd have to hack Apple TV to do what I want too. Then I could also surf the web or do anything else I wanted on my flat-screen via a full-featured computer, not a dumbed-down Apple TV.
if your wife wants to keep her iPod tracked to her computer, and you to yours.
Wouldn't that still be possible with the MP3 files on a central network hard drive? Can't her iTunes pull the files from the hard drive and sync to her iPod, and mine do the same on mine? I don't see the point in having duplicate MP3 databases. Then we end up downloading duplicate copies of the same songs, not knowing the other had already downloaded it. Keeping everything in once central place keeps everything simplified and organized.
Besides, I also need network storage for non-media files!
The AppleTV is also $229, whereas the Mac Mini is $600-800. That's between 3 and 4 times the price. You could buy an HD-DVD player and an AppleTV for the same price. But if your ultimate goal is to consolidate your video library on your network with immediate and indexed access... a DVD player is redundant anyway.
I know, that's why I decided not to buy one! The poster had suggested I buy a Mac Mini AND an Apple TV. I was saying that if I had to buy a Mac Mini I would not ALSO buy an Apple TV. I would also not buy an HD-DVD, since that format is dead. Also, a video library was never part of my needs. I can't watch a movie more than once, but I can listen to a song hundreds of times.
Every new technology you attempt to integrate into your lifestyle requires varying degrees of re-organizing... The AppleTV mitigates a lot of this by not requiring you to reorganize anything if you don't want to, and by giving you organized access to organized and often disjointed sets of content. There's no getting around the fact that you'll have to re-rig something... but AppleTV requires the least amount of re-rigging of any convergence device that I've seen in a long time.
It's a nice peice of equipment, it just doesn't do what I need.