Why?
Because there seem to be opinions regarding lengthening/shortening the life of an NVME SSD, or possibly inviting data corruption according to the Apple disclaimer that pops up when you enable trimforce.
Tom
If you don't turn it on, then the SSD's life span will be shorten. So, turn on TRIM can't be the mistake.
"TRIM may cause data lost" is an old problem on Linux, not macOS. And that's many years ago. However, since that happened before, and Apple has no way to make sure all 3rd party SSD can work flawlessly with TRIM. Therefore, they have to show you that disclaimer.
Anyway, they have lots of similar disclaimer for other functions (e.g. iCloud), apparently, we generally won't considered that we have to avoid any function (including TRIM) even Apple's disclaimer show us what the possible risks are.
Therefore, I can't see why "enable TRIM" can be a mistake.