To clarify- right now if someone texts me to my phone number itself, it doesnt go to messages. If someone sends me a text to my email, it goes to messages. Am I doing something wrong?
In iOS 6 you'll be able to link your phone number to your icloud account. Then it will work flawlessly.
Finally. This should have been the case all along. Right now the iMessages apps on the iPad and Mac OS are useless since most people who text using it text to my number not my e-mail.
Are you talking strictly about your iPhone friends texting your number?