The memory will run at the slowest stick's timings/speed with the highest voltage (so the 1.35v memory will be run at 1.5v if you have some mixed in). This is OK as long as your lower-power stuff also supports 1.5v. Personally I have 2x8GB DDR3-1600 @1.35v and a 1x8GB DDR3-1600 @1.5v by mistake (thought I was buying another stick of the same RAM and I was wrong). All of that memory runs at 1.5v DDR3-1333, because that's what my CPU supports.
Try to balance the 3 channels to have as similar a capacity as possible. If you wind up with 2 bigger DIMMs and 2 smaller DIMMs, but the big ones in slots 1 and 2, and the smaller ones in 3 and 4. Slots 3 and 4 share the same channel on the memory controller, so that's what works best.
Worst case scenario, assuming the memory is good, is that on boot the memory configuration app will tell you to swap some sticks around.