I saw both these phones for the first time yesterday, and by God is the Pro and Pro Max ugly! Those 'gigantic' rear cameras just look an utter design mess!
No way, I picked up the 14 Plus and it was like picking up air next to the Pro Max, it's bigger body made it feel lighter then the standard 14. So for me I'm going to wait for the 15 Plus as it's rumoured to get that island at the top. Design wise looking it's a lot less ugly and usability wise it's better due to its lighter weight, the 14 Plus was a clear winner. I may even give in and just get the 14 Plus anyway.
Everyone's different but that's my opinion.
As for the wealth thing, I see more standard sized iPhones, wether they are normal or Pro models, than any other model. Especially amongst women they seem to mostly have standard none Pro 6.1" iPhones no matter how rich they are.
I think I just need a bigger screen.