You right about that, that is kind of deceiving.
Well I found a layout in Iconoclasm that met most of my needs but ran into the next bug I'm hoping someone has a solution for.
If I have a folder on the bottom row (not the dock) then tap to open the folder. It opens in a downward direction off the screen and I can only see the top 4 icons in the folder and just part of the text for each of those 4. The rest of the icons are off the bottom of the screen and you can't scroll down to get them.
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...and no, I wouldn't really put these on the level of hack jobs. I'm just very frustrated with iOS at the moment and trying to accomplish something I consider so simple is driving me up a wall.
I wouldn't consider them marvels of programming though as with each of the 3, they have, what I would consider, major bugs or flaws that could or should be addressed. I think it's silly to pay the premium price for an iPhone with iOS only to feel like I am adding incomplete code to it because I jailbroke.
I'm quickly coming to the conclusion that iOS is best for people who don't want to have to deal with their device unless they are doing a specific task. No big problems...but no big freedom.
Android is for those of us who like to hack and slash on our stuff. Contrary to the feeling I get from the iOS jailbreak community, there are plenty of amazing devs out there working on the "root" side of the Android house. They are open and communicate well with the users through platforms like Twitter and Google+ and generally, when I install their stuff, I feel I've added something that has been well thought out.
Of course there are great examples of good devs on both sides and great examples of bad devs on both sides but I think the best of the iOS dev world concentrates on stuff that is still within the walled garden while the best of the Android devs are outside of the Play Store and dealing with rooted phones.
I think this is reenforced by the quality of apps in each official store. iOS takes the cake for quality stuff in the official store. Android takes the cake once you move outside the planned lines and start dealing with root/jailbreak.
Just my 2 cents.