I think they probably have different voltages. iPhone 13 Pro Max is 16.75 Wh while the 2021 iPad Pro 12.9 is 40.88 Wh.
As for charging rates, the charts on the following thread are likely not too far off.
(10/8/2017) tldr; Chart of % gain over minutes for the Anker 30W charger described below, in case you just want to verify that your charger is charging at full speed. --- Original post follows: I finally managed to get my hands on both the 2nd gen iPad Pro 12.9" and the new iPad Pro 10.5"...
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I've never really measured it but iirc, the charging time on my 2017 12.9 and 2021 12.9 when using a 65W fast charger are fairly similar. Even if the 2021 can pull 36W max, I don't think it stays there for long.