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Jensreich

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Jun 17, 2024
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So last night my boyfriend was coming back from his hometown on a bus. He was supposed to arrive to the bus terminal at 7pm but I checked his location at 8pm and he was still at the terminal, that was a LIVE location. I texted him and got no reply. Around 8:15pm I saw his location started moving FROM the bus terminal towards his house, again, it was a LIVE location and I could see his location moving when suddenly his location just stopped. Its about a 30min drive from the terminal to his house and yes, at 8:45pm I was able to see his location again, at his house, and I got a text from him saying that he ARRIVED TO HIS HOUSE AT 8pm and that he took a shower. Is this possible? Even when at 8:15pm I was seeing him on the map moving through the road on his way home? Could there be a delay? My guess is that he's not telling the truth, and when at 8:20pm I was following him through the app, he turned his location off, that's why I could no longer see his live location until he got home and turned it back on. Any guesses?
 

Apple_Robert

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Sep 21, 2012
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1) There can be a delay with Find My tracking results although in my experience, that is rare. It is usually within 5 - 10 mins but, it depends on cellular connection and other changing factors.

2) A slight difference in time doesn't necessarily mean he lied to you. If I were him, I wouldn't appreciate what you were doing and that may be why he turned off his location to give himself some quiet time.

3) In my opinion, the most important aspect from your OP is that he arrived safely. If I were in a relationship with a lady who had been traveling, that would be my focus, not obsessing every single minute and instantly thinking that she is lying to me and disrespecting me.

4) Your relationship is going to end the way you keep projecting it to be if you continue with the unhealthy way of relationship thinking, in my opinion.
 
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