OP wrote above:
[[ my mac mini is a 2.3 GHz Intel Core i5 w/2 GB of RAM ]]
This is a "late 2012" Mini with USB3, is this correct?
If that's the case, I'd do this:
1. Install a SINGLE 8gb RAM board into one of the memory slots (either one will do).
This will "bump you up" to 8-9gb of RAM, shouldn't have "memory problems" after that.
2. You said you didn't even know what an SSD is -- it's a "solid state drive", FAR faster than a spinning hard disk drive (HDD). Since you probably aren't inclined to be opening the Mini to install an SSD (which can be a risky job), you can add one externally and get a -BIG- jump in speed.
Here's what you need to do that:
a. An SSD, of course. Right now the "sweet spot" in pricing is in the 240-256gb range. A "bare drive" will run you about $100-130 (depending where you buy and what's on sale). I'd suggest either a Samsung, a Crucial, or an Intel drive.
b. An enclosure or "dock" to put the drive into. I'd suggest this:
http://www.amazon.com/Optimized-Ina...190901&sr=8-1&keywords=inateck+usb3+sata+uasp
Installation couldn't be easier. You just:
- push off the top cover
- slip SSD into slot
- put top cover back on
- initialize SSD with Disk Utility
- install a copy of the OS onto it
- move your accounts over to it
IMPORTANT: unless you get a higher-capacity drive (say, 480gb which runs about $200+/-), you will have to be selective about how much you copy over. Some large files, such as movies, can be "left behind" on the internal HDD and run that way.