I have been running 128GB of RAM in various OSs on a 2012 Mac Pro. Although any OS X version before 10.9 does not support more than 96GB, it does not seem to compromise system stability. It does know the system has 128GB, however will use 96GB in Activity Monitor. Windows variants in 64-bit versions also work fine.
Just wanted to post this in the event anyone was considering the upgrade...
Just wanted to post this in the event anyone was considering the upgrade...