And me also. I now have to say "hey siri, turn everything off" and that will turn my lights and tv off.
Also, I just tried to set a 20 minute timer and got the useless "hmm, that's taking a little longer", "still working on it". I gave up and pulled out my phone.
Homekit is so so so so abysmal that I am seriously considering just going down the Alexa smart home route.