Design
Gotta thank you for all your help, finally figured this thing out, well at least partially. Your last bit of advice was what did it, I should have thought of looking at the structure of the working themes myself, woulda saved a lot of hassle but either way thanks for the heady advice. The deal was this: I had my theme folder in the correct place and my icons were formatted(?) correctly but I had to add an additional icons folder, putting my icons in there while leaving the wallpaper, doc, and mini doc. I believe i was reformatting(?) all files in my theme's folder to 0644 (including my created icons folder). This was a problem because apparently, while the wallpaper, doc, icon images inside the icon folder, etc. has to be 0644, the icon folder itself has to be 0755. Maybe this is an obvious mistake, I'm not really sure, but like I said, I'm a true youngin when it comes to the technical aspects of all of this. I'd love to learn how to take control of this thing but im just learning the basics. I appreciate your help with helping me learn something something though, hopefully if anyone else is having a similar problem this will help. Still haven't gotten custom customize icons to work but I'll fiddle around some more and post if I stumble across anything.