Wow, you know if i wanted to be told what to do and what not to do, i would have asked for that. I am assuming no one one here knows who to set up a mail server on Mac OS X then? I know the risks, and my ISP is probably the most naive of them all. Also, they arent restrictive as to what I can and cant do online (like verizon and RoadRunner is).
@phineas, yeah my domain is hosted and i can edit all of my zone records and all, so just set my MX records to my IP (or my dyndns) right?
@edesignuk, you know for someone with V as their Av and in their sig, you should know something about "The Man" and sticking it to him. Also this: "If you want something done right, you gotta do it yourself".
@brett_x I know what I am getting into (and yes I know that a file server and mail server is different, trust me, i know what the difference is between SMB, AFP, NFS and IMAP,POP3, SMTP are.), I just dont know how to get it set up on Mac OS X server. I had it working in Linux, but all the home computers are Macs now, so I fgured to use OS X Server instead of linux (AFP on linux doesnt play too nicely sometimes). I have the nessecary ports routed via Port Fordwarding to the server only, and like i said, I know the risks. If something happens, its my own fault.
Now, how exactly do I set up a mail server in Mac OS X Server??