So the drivers on the PC side are much better than the drivers on the Mac side?
Not only the drivers are tweaked for each game and have more features but the windows version of the games themselves are better optimized for windows and for different specific hardware combinations. Windows also provides newer OpenGL and DirectX which is the API most games are written for.
Another question. As I run around in this game my fps is about half what my friends are running with the same 980 Ti. The claim the the 60 Hz refresh rate on my monitor is too slow. They mention BENQ monitors running at 144 Hz are better. Any comments.
If vsync is on and your monitor refreshes at 60Hz then you'll be limited to 60fps maximum. If that is the case then there's no point in disabling vsync as it will cause tearing (except if your main concern is latency for example in a fast paced online FPS as vsync increases latency). Sure your framerate will be higher but your monitor won't be able to display the extra frames anyway.
However if your framerate is lower than 60fps then you might want to disable vsync. If vsync is on and your graphics card cannot match the refresh rate of your monitor, then the framerate will be limited to submultiples of your screen's refresh rate, often resulting in the framerate suddenly jumping between 60, 30, 15fps which is annoying.
If you're caught between the two cases then you can try to enable adaptive v-sync which is supposed to activate only when your framerate exceeds your screen's frequency, thus avoiding tearing while not impacting lower framerates, but in my experience it's not perfect and does not work properly in many games.
As for your friend's comments, I guess you are able to judge if the refresh rate is enough for you and if you're happy with it or if 60Hz looks choppy to you. I've found that most gaming oriented monitors tend to be very good on refresh rates and latency but very bad on contrast, colors and viewing angles (generally using TN panels). Also bear in mind that most of these 144Hz monitors have a resolution of 1920x1080, lower than yours, which is one reason why you'll never match your friends framerates playing at the native resolution of your screen.