Maybe my post came across as too critical - didn't mean it that way.
What I was trying to say is that the dreamy bokeh you get with very nice lenses won't do much when you have an asymetric blob like that scarf in the background.
Here's an example of a tree right behind the subject. This was taken on my front porch with the 135/F2. I like the bokeh on it, and because the tree is asymmetric, you can't really even tell what it is:
It's not the greatest image, primarily because i didn't get the fill lighting ratio correct, but I'm learning as well. Great portrait photography involves aligning so many things at the same time that it's overwhelming. I guess my point was if you have a good 2.8 aperture lens, you can do a LOT of great portrait work. If you're looking for extreme DOF work like I said with the eye in focus but the nose out then you need the F2 or F1.2 probably. It depends on what you're looking for artistically.
The 70-200/2.8 in canon is a great lens - I own it myself. I would assume the Nikon is of similar quality. I bought the 135 primarily because other people raved about it and it is DEFINITELY a marked improvement in both sharpness and improved bokeh compared with the 70-200 and is by far my favorite lens I've ever owned. However, there are a lot of working pros that create portraits way better than I could dream to do with the 70-200.
A lot of studio work is shot at F8 anyway.... That's what I shoot almost all my indoor work at, I rarely open up to wide apertures inside.
I enjoy the discussion. I'm just learning as well, so again please pardon if my original comment was too critical. I think we all get too caught up in gear sometimes, I know I'm fighting the urge to buy the 85/F1.2 for portraits to explore more and also the 300/2.8IS for soccer, it never ends....
Cheers.