Thanks, spacemanspifff
This is a magazine that all pages will be off-set printed in black ink only except for the cover which has a duotone (black and 1 pms) saved as eps. But the images in question are photoshop greyscale.
I read something in an Adobe forum after I posted this that may explain what I am seeing. If I understand correctly, InDesign does not preview the grey scale correctly until you add transparency which in this case is a feather. It then is forced to preview the greyscale image as it would look only using the black plate. This in comparison to a cmyk black and white photo which would be printed as rich black using some of the color plates too. So I am seeing a more muted black ink only image.
What is interesting is that when I export a high quality PDF it shows the same phenomena. The greyscale image with the feather looks more muted. Actually all images on the page become muted even if only one has the feather. If I export a high quality PDF with no feather the images are darker.
Then I did the same thing but exported a press quality and all images look more muted whether I used a feather or not. So maybe it is the black plate only vs rich black that I am seeing.