how come when i get an new email on m iphone and i del it.. i check on the hotmail server to see if i been deleted.. but its not an i got to del it again why is that? is there way to fixed that
Go into the settings for the specific mail account. Go into Advanced and change the "Delete from server" setting. The Hotmail server should honor deletion requests.
Go into the settings for the specific mail account. Go into Advanced and change the "Delete from server" setting. The Hotmail server should honor deletion requests.
Right... there isn't much to be done about this unless/until Hotmail offers IMAP access. It's not iPhone 3GS specific (or even iPhone specific) either. The only things you could really do would be things like switching to a web or app client for Hotmail other than the mail application, or else possibly using some kind of mail aggregating service that accesses Hotmail using a different mechanism than POP, so that it deletes/marks mail properly.
OTOH, I would not turn on the "Delete from the server" feature with any POP account. That would make deleted messages pretty much unrecoverable from anywhere else.