I would recommend Digital Infrared Photography by Cyrill Harnischmacher, it's a great book about (obviously) digital IR photography and it's got a good section on post processing.
But to sum it up he offers several different ways:
1) Black and White Conversion: Basically make the image grayscale while being careful of an over saturated red channel.
2) B&W Conversion in Lab Colour Space: Convert to Lab Colour and make some adjustments.
3) B&W Conversion with Channel Mixer: Just like it sounds
After that he goes on to talk about optimising the images with various techniques. But the best part of the book is he talks about everything else needed to take an IR photo, not just post.
Personally I prefer option 2, I think it gives the nicest image. In addition to that I found a Photoshop action that automates the process and produces a "false colour" which is kind of neat looking.
The action and what it does is here:
http://khromagery.com.au/digital_ir.html#false
I hope that helps.