It's an excellent idea to learn how to use any camera on manual mode, but there are other modes you can use where the camera assists you. For example, lots of film cameras have a light meter that tells you the lighting conditions before you press the shutter button. Also, you can set these cameras to "aperture priority," or "shutter priority."
You can use Av (aperture priority) mode on your XSi, and the camera chooses the best shutter speed possible. You can also set your XSi to Tv (shutter priority), and the camera selects the best aperture possible.
It means that once you have learned what each aperture does for DOF, you can use Av mode to your advantage. It also means that once you have learned what a fast or slow shutter speed does, you can take advantage of the Tv mode of your camera. If you have already learned about such things at school, it would be to your advantage using some of the "creative" modes of your XSi. It will save you quite a lot of time, and provide you with a lot of more hits (less missed shots) that are properly exposed and in focus.
For macro photography or for stationary subjects, manual focusing works well. For moving subjects autofocusing has the advantage. Back in the days of film cameras used for sports events, quite a lot of photographers would focus the lens on a certain preset distance, and then wait for the player to step into that specific area before pressing the shutter button. The camera's motor drive would then roll around 6 photos per second (Nikon F3 with motor drive. I have one). This was achieved by selecting the lens apertures that provided the deepest DOF possible for the lighting conditions, and the use of fast films.
My suggestion is for you to buy a "Canon EOS XSi digital SLR photography guide." Such a guide would duplicate the owners manual, but in great detail, with clear explanations and examples (photos, charts, etc.) that tell you all you need to know about your XSi.