when i dont use my keyboard for several minutes then go to type, it will not enter the first key i type, as if it is reconnecting with the system. is there some way to prevent this or is it a problem that apple needs to address?
This has been widely noted, and I believe that it's a feature or bug of OS X. Try this and see if your keyboard responds better:
Go to
System Preferences
Keyboard&Mouse
Choose the "keyboard" tab (it should be the first one)
Now, slide the "key repeate rate" bar and choose a faster setting. You might also want to try adjusting the "Delay Until Repeat" bar. See if this changes anything.