Long time lurker, first time poster. Since upgrading last week I’ve searched for similar threads asking the same question.
I made the same move, Pro Max 14 to 17 Pro. I’ve had the 17P a week and at times still unsure if I made the right decision. I feel like I did but that bigger display keeps trying to pull me back.
I like everything about the 17 Pro: weight, overall size, ability to use the phone with one hand, doesn’t weigh my pants down, comfortable to hold, and battery life is on par or better than my 14 PM which was never a concern. I can charge any time during the day. I dropped my 14PM all the time. Not a single drop so far with the 17P.
The only thing I question is am I missing out on the bigger display knowing that I’m going to run into the same complaints as my 14PM. It’s heavier, needs two hands to use, back pocket only to carry, and all the other things that made me switch to the 17P. If the 17P was 6.5” it would be perfect for me.
The only thing I can offer to help is look at them in person and/or try it and exchange if you’re not happy. It’s an adjustment for sure and only by living with it for a few days will you know.