Their info isn't exactly detailed and accurate.
Being an engineer (Yes, I actually do design motherboards too) I can assure that you to have the Mac Pro in Quad Channel mode, you do indeed need a matched set of 4 FB-DIMMS. By matched pair, I mean 4 DIMMs of the same capacity and chip count. The same manufacture is not needed. The system will deal with miss matched CAS and SPD. (choosing the fastest that all DIMMs can run at)
The key to Quad channel mode is capacity and chip count. (Chip count doesn't really matter right now, as there are so few FB-DIMMs available, most all have the same count)
I can assure you that putting 1GB DIMMs in A1 and A2 and 512MB DIMMs in B1 and B2 WILL run the memory at 128-Bit (Dual Channel) and NOT 256-Bit (Quad Channel)