"Love:Hate" may sum up the relationship between users and Apple tech in general. To roll with Apple, you have to understand that Apple will often decide to "improve" something you may feel is fine as is. Often this improvement can seem 2 or 3 steps back and may take a few years to get back to being as good as it was before the "improvement."
Remedies: Become a...
- Fan so that anything & everything Apple does is practically perfect in every way. All "improvements" are then fantastic even if they are not. Just evangelize all as great in every way. Delude yourself and try to delude others into believing the same.
- Hater so that anything & everything Apple does is stupid/terrible/worst thing ever. Move on to competing platforms that are then superior, but continue to chime in on how terrible all things Apple are to stir the pot. Or stick with Apple but expect any complaints to be met with a wave of blaming you, your setup, third party stuff attached to your Mac, "cheap Chinese chargers", settings mistakes you've made, etc.
Or hang in between the extremes, sometimes being pleased or disappointed with Apple choices. When you are the former, you'll get likes and re-quotes by the Fans but disgust/gripes from the haters. And vice versa.
With modern Apple, we're in a period of time where users unhappy with some "improvement" must try to find their own workarounds. Else, avoid the "improvements" that frustrate you with hopes that Apple will come back around to making them work well again sooner or later.
In your particular case, eventually flaws/issues with Sonoma may evolve with "improvements" towards how things were with Monterey... which had its own mix of flaws/issues vs. Big Sur... which had its own issues vs. High Sierra... which had its own mix of flaws/issues...
There is an old, general rule of thumb that says don't even upgrade to a new version of macOS until at least the .3 or .4 version. The general sentiment is .0-.2 or so are the broad "beta tester" groups. Sonoma is currently on the .2.1 level... so the post "beta" version of it is still a point update or two... or THREE... away.
Will it get better?
Yes. When will it seem as great as older, fully-matured version of macOS preferred by any given individual? Maybe not until the fully-matured version of Sonoma... or the next generation after Sonoma... or the next generation after that generation... or...
Welcome to the Appleverse!