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I updated mine to 14.2, and haven't noticed any difference in speed/ responsiveness, and also haven't noticed any issues. But I have been a very light iPad user since lockdown, so my needs might be less stressful to the iPad than yours.
 
I have the same iPad Pro and also don't have any issues with the performance. I use mine mostly for reading, streaming, web.
 
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