kwajo.com said:
haha! thanks for the laugh, I needed one right now.
It really is an angering situation. I know it happens every once in a while to almost everyone, but the worst part isn't the feeling off loss from losing my possessions, it's the feeling that someone violated my home, that some horrible stranger was standing by my bed and taking the things which I have worked hard to earn. Disgusting. It made me want to throw up last night when I got home and realized what happened. Now I am just grateful that I am alright, and that I can start to rebuild, bigger and better. My neighborhood is usually pretty quiet, but I heard another place got broken into as well last night, so it must have been a random spree or something. Doesn't offer much comfort, but at least I don't feel alone.
Sorry to hear about the loss.
My sister can fully understand your pain after her home invasion last year; while she was still there. Fortunately for her, only her truck was stolen (though she is still fighting to get it repaired properly).
Never had my home broken in to, just my car (lost a couple of suits hanging in the back- hope the thieves were able to find a decent job);and my ex's truck (lost about $8000US of camera gear in that one - all covered by insurance).
I would like to think that if my home were broken into, I could maintain my outlook in that I am safe, and my loss was covered by insurance.
My sister on the other hand has lingering issues with that day. She has a security cameras trained on her property, 24 hours a day. The security monitor never is turned off. She has two large dogs;but she will only travel if she can get a dog sitter - just so the dogs might scare someone off. She won't travel for more than a couple days at most in her vehicle, just so that it can sit in the driveway - to make it look like someone is there.
I love my sister; but is hard for me to fully understand her anxiety after the break-in. Sure I think I would be jumpy over some things. But IMO I think that I would count my blessings that I was safe, and that I had insurance to cover my losses.
She does not live in the best of neighborhoods. But like so many across the nation with rising house values, she is sought of caught in the bind of what she wants (a place for large breed dogs, a private pool, a relatively easy commute to work).
This contrasts to my personal view. For those that followed my saga over the past couple of years here on MR; I made the choice after my ex and I split, that the best option in the area was to sell and go rental. Sure I could have taken in a room mate or two and held on to my TH. But I made a choice that I wanted more control in my life. I did not want to rely on others to make my way of life possible.
For those that know the back story, I made the greatest sacrifice IMO; and that was after I signed the lease on my current space - my ex delivered our loved dog, Chewey at my doorstep. Chewey is a 100+ pound lab/chow mix. My lease allows for only up to 50 pounds.
If I had a "normal" job I would have suffered the loss on the lease I signed. That cost was almost $3000US; but my hours at work also came in to play. So I did the hardest thing I think in my life; and worked night and day to find Chewey a new, loving home.
Sorry for the rant. But your situation brought up some deep feelings on my part. And I hope that contrasting views may provide something for you to help make some choices.
Regards
Chip