I finally gave in to the update prompt and did it. Now my 2019 Mac Pro boots but there is no video. I can log into it from another computer and see that everything looks normal including Finder running. Killing Finder had not affect. Resetting the SMC had no effect. Since it was fine before the update, if feels like a software issue. I don't see how I can run restore without video. Any ideas how to fix this? I could make a bootable usb on a 16,1 iMac but I don't know if that would be useful.