I did some research into this. I figure if the RAM is cheaper, it works, ECC is not needed, and non-ECC RAM actually runs a little faster.... well then why the hell not?
The problem is, I've read here and elsewhere that RAM without the temperature sensor causes the MP to run one or more fans at full speed on the assumption that the RAM is hot.
I don't want loud fans, so I set about looking for non-ECC ram with the temperature sensor. Mainly I found that this sort of information is not typically listed, making it hard to shop with any sort of confidence. I did find some gaming/overclocker/enthusiast non-ECC ram with temperature sensor, but it was FAR more expensive than even ECC ram.
In the end I gave up and got ECC ram. I don't want my case fans running at full speed, and I couldn't confidently find non-ECC ram that was inexpensive and definitely had the temp sensor.