I plan to order RAM to upgrade it, too slow. The Word or Excel icon jump "hundred" times before open.
Should be OK - the two new sticks go in the empty slots in between the existing RAM - so if the existing sticks are in slots 1 and 3 the new sticks go in slots 2 and 4.
But: Word/Excel being slow to load doesn't sound like a problem due to "only" 8GB of RAM - which should be fine for that. Adding more RAM
might help but I wouldn't bet on it. You certainly don't need 40GB (32+8) for office. More than 16GB RAM is for people working with large graphics files, "big data", 4K+ video, lots of virtual machines etc. If you need it, you'll know. If Excel/Word are taking forever to load it sounds like hard-drive issues.
Things to check:
Run Activity monitor and
ignore the memory used value - it isn't very indicative. If you have a RAM shortage then "Memory Pressure" is high and/or "Swap Used" will be more than zero.
Is your hard-drive full? Yeah, you might have 1TB but use much more than 80% of that (especially on the system drive) and things get inefficient. Use "disc first aid" to check everything is OK.
Don't be tempted by certain widely-advertised disc-clean-up tools - they range from unnecessary to downright harmful.
Also - try other applications to see if they're slow. If its just Word/Excel try removing and re-installing them. They could be trying to "phone home" to check for updates etc.
Otherwise... well, when people ask here first, friends don't let friends buy iMacs with the HD only or 1TB Fusion drive options. If you feel adventurous enough to dismantle the iMac, there are instructions out there on the web for installing SSDs, or you can get a fast external SSD and boot from it (several threads here about that).