So I finally got to compare the Note 9 and iPhone XS Max yesterday and from the perspective of wanting a phone with the biggest screen possible, I found that neither of those offer anything more than my current iPhone 7 Plus.
The screen on the Max is the same width as that of the 7 Plus, so it only feels longer, not larger. And the notch negates the very advantage of the elongated aspect ratio - 18:9 videos utilising the full length of the aspect ratio either have a dent in them, or have to be viewed as a significantly smaller rectangle - this I found very annoying.
The Note 9 screen is truly bigger than that of the 7 Plus as it wider and not just longer. But no matter how hard I try, I can't stop feeling that the curve just distorts and ruins part of the content, making the actual usable screen space significantly smaller than on paper.
Enter the Razer Phone. I had my eyes on the original one but never got to test it. 5.7" and 16:9 means its screen is wider in portrait mode than both the above phones, which to me = larger. And being an avid gamer, the 120hz screen option is definitely interesting for me. Definitely hoping to get my hands on one of these soon.
@Rhonindk I loved your thorough review(s) of the original Razer Phone, did you get to handle the new one yet and if so what's your take?