Ok so now I'm totally confuse as to why the RAM is getting so hot!?! :-/
Because you don't have the Apple spec heatsinks on them.
Yea I've noticed the old RAM had big kick ass sinks on em, wonder if they're for sale somewhere?!?!
http://www.maxupgrades.com/istore/index.cfm?fuseaction=product.display&Product_ID=157
P/N SZ-MAXSINK02. $20 for two DIMMs.
Those temperatures are nothing out of the ordinary really. If you still have the old sticks you could unclip the sinks and swap them over?
Those temperatures ARE out of the ordinary, actually.
70-80*C is "up there". Will it work? Probably, but I have personally witnessed issues with stability under heavy load (some of the cheaper FBDIMM RAM like the Kingston ValueRAM stuff will flake out and crash the computer or the application or both- it's random really).
The lifetime of the RAM may be impacted as a result of this. Not to mention the fact that the Mac Pro will run louder then normal as the front and rear fans will spool up in an attempt to keep the FBDIMM temperature around 70-80*C, because anything higher then that is really unhealthy for the memory.
The reason why Apple stuck such a big honkin' heatsink on their FBDIMM RAM was precisely so that it would dissipate heat more efficiently- thus, they could run the Mac Pro fans at a lower speed and the FBDIMMs would stay plenty cool (normal operating temperature is between 40 and 70*C).
If you don't mind the additional noise from the Mac Pro and nothing is crashing- then I guess you can run a Mac Pro like that. It's not recommended though- there's a reason why Apple used different heatsinks and this would be it. The absolute worst thing that can possibly happen here is that one of the FBDIMMs will eventually flake out and cause the system to crash or kernel panic, in which case that DIMM would require replacement. But there should be relatively no risk of actually damaging the Mac Pro (or memory carrier).
So it's up to the op if he wants to run his workstation like that or not, and run the risk of slim consequences.
-SC