Going to bump this because I have a similar problem - and admittedly, I may just be an idiot. Here's the deal:
I'm a university student. I schedule my classes/work/meetings as events in my iCal. I have different assignments due different days - so I use the reminders function in iCal (on the right) to schedule in my syllabi with each assignments due dates.
In iOS5 on my 4S, I want the 'reminders' (that is, those assignments due for that day) to appear in the notification bar. However, simply having 'due dates' (for example, an assignment due on 10/31) will not show up on the notification bar).
I've read other sources suggesting that an 'alert' for the day after the assignment is due would do the trick. While setting an alert for the day after the actual due date (such that the assignment will appear in the notification bar), it designates that the reminder was 'yesterday'.
Perhaps I'm missing something blatantly obvious, but it's a little frustrating. And I rather not create 'events' that have the information that my reminders have in them (that is, particular assignments).
Any suggestions? Thanks in advance.