went ahead and clicked restore and update. it is now downloading the "iPad software update" but under notes it just said iPad software and the usual legal stuff. well I guess i will see if the JB breaker has been release already.
You might have better luck posting these in the existing jailbreak threads (which people are probably subscribed to), or even your own other thread on the subject, instead of creating a new one for every step you take.
back on topic. so i put the ipad into restore mode to be able to start the software update. while it showed the connect to itunes screen, the update downloaded. Now while still downloading my ipad just kicked it self out of restore mode and opened up like normal while the software is still downloading...weird.