Other people agree with what you say and what I say ... so the jury is still out.
I DO agree that having an app store for OS X should in no way impede any of the other ways to distribute and execute Mac apps compared to how things are currently. And I DO agree that if Apple opened an online OS X app store that they might go too far and then eventually Apple would force the app store to be the ONLY way to distribute Mac apps (and I don't want that).
I think the comment from one of those other threads "One single trusted source for customers" is as bad of a thing as it is good.
If Apple or another company (if Apple allowed) did it like SteamPoweredGames.com , then I think that would be great and it wouldn't take over and wouldn't impede any other type of distribution, it would just be a solid CHOICE for distribution (key word CHOICE).
So maybe if someone would give feedback on having a solid and widely used online Mac app distribution system assuming that for one moment Apple (or whatever company was running it) wasn't a huge monopolous secretive power-hungry corporation

?
(But that is like asking 'Give feedback on what the Republicans would do assuming they weren't acting like Republicans?')
Maybe if SteamPoweredGames simply expanded into the Mac realm that would be pretty much what I had in mind. Though I was planning on distributing other apps than just games.
I guess Kagi is a decent distribution system that is also for Mac apps (they also have a store here
http://shop.kagi.com/ ) - I mean I've bought software apps through Kagi on my Mac for years (mostly emulators), though it doesn't have much of an online presence. If anyone else knows of any good online distribution systems for Mac apps let me know, I will probably post a thread in the programming section of the forum asking developers what systems they use for distribution of paid Mac apps.
Truthfully I just want a cheap way to sell Mac apps, without the hassles of self-distribution and worrying about handling payments and payment systems myself. I have done this before, it is a big headache. Again the greatness of iPod and iPhone app development is how this is all done for you, however much that is undone by awful crippling and monopolization. I'd like to find a balance between the two. I don't mind giving away some apps, but not all of them. I have a wife and two kids, I have to make a living somehow, despite how much I'd like every app ever made to be free.