If they are getting your passwords for sites using SSL a local keylogger is by far the most likely. Can you take a screen shot of what's running on your machine from Activity Monitor and either post the pic or a link to it here? Please don't wipe the machine before doing this, as it might help others if we can identify what's running.
Here comes. Donnow if this is what you had in mind... Tomorrow I'll send the shot from the desktop computer. Many thanks!
209 pmTool root 2,30 1 3,64 MB 37,39 MB PowerPC
208 Activity Monitor ana 4,30 2 21,57 MB 100,04 MB PowerPC
198 Safari ana 0,00 7 58,04 MB 141,88 MB PowerPC
186 Mail ana 0,00 5 21,13 MB 140,79 MB PowerPC
185 mdimport ana 0,00 4 3,61 MB 39,73 MB PowerPC
184 usbmuxd nobody 0,00 2 564,00 KB 26,98 MB PowerPC
183 UniversalAccessApp ana 0,00 1 3,38 MB 78,61 MB PowerPC
182 System Events ana 0,00 1 2,88 MB 79,97 MB PowerPC
181 iTunes Helper ana 0,00 2 1,89 MB 69,27 MB PowerPC
180 Microsoft AU Daemon ana 0,00 1 1,88 MB 68,38 MB PowerPC
177 Finder ana 0,00 4 12,36 MB 104,86 MB PowerPC
176 SystemUIServer ana 0,00 2 6,37 MB 95,38 MB PowerPC
175 Dock ana 0,00 2 2,79 MB 56,54 MB PowerPC
172 mdimport nobody 0,00 3 2,20 MB 38,58 MB PowerPC
169 pbs ana 0,00 2 1,89 MB 54,12 MB PowerPC
168 cupsd root 0,00 2 1,42 MB 27,84 MB PowerPC
157 mds root 0,00 8 4,65 MB 44,04 MB PowerPC
132 crashreporterd root 0,00 1 200,00 KB 26,61 MB PowerPC
121 automount root 0,00 3 1,05 MB 28,73 MB PowerPC
117 automount root 0,00 5 1,21 MB 29,63 MB PowerPC
114 rpc.lockd root 0,00 1 196,00 KB 26,67 MB PowerPC
105 nfsiod root 0,00 5 184,00 KB 28,62 MB PowerPC
91 ntpd root 0,00 1 376,00 KB 26,86 MB PowerPC
77 lookupd root 0,00 3 1,30 MB 29,04 MB PowerPC
67 loginwindow ana 0,00 3 3,99 MB 76,58 MB PowerPC
66 ATSServer ana 0,00 2 2,95 MB 64,48 MB PowerPC
65 coreservicesd root 0,00 3 5,46 MB 35,23 MB PowerPC
59 WindowServer windowserver 0,30 2 15,14 MB 83,19 MB PowerPC
56 DirectoryService root 0,00 3 2,50 MB 30,41 MB PowerPC
55 distnoted root 0,00 1 776,00 KB 27,02 MB PowerPC
49 update root 0,00 1 220,00 KB 26,61 MB PowerPC
46 notifyd root 0,00 2 460,00 KB 27,21 MB PowerPC
44 securityd root 0,00 1 1,73 MB 28,52 MB PowerPC
43 memberd root 0,00 3 592,00 KB 27,66 MB PowerPC
42 diskarbitrationd root 0,00 1 1.024,00 KB 27,13 MB PowerPC
41 coreaudiod root 0,00 1 1,70 MB 30,66 MB PowerPC
40 configd root 0,00 3 1,75 MB 29,23 MB PowerPC
39 xinetd root 0,00 1 600,00 KB 26,76 MB PowerPC
36 syslogd root 0,00 1 408,00 KB 26,64 MB PowerPC
35 netinfod root 0,00 1 560,00 KB 26,95 MB PowerPC
34 mDNSResponder root 0,00 2 1.024,00 KB 27,37 MB PowerPC
33 KernelEventAgent root 0,00 2 596,00 KB 27,19 MB PowerPC
29 kextd root 0,00 2 1.008,00 KB 27,55 MB PowerPC
25 dynamic_pager root 0,00 1 164,00 KB 26,63 MB PowerPC
1 launchd root 0,00 3 360,00 KB 27,68 MB PowerPC
0 kernel_task root 0,20 35 48,66 MB 649,89 MB PowerPC