Also heres my shh.con
So Minecraft did start to work after you ran a pfctl command? Presumably something like pfctl -ef /etc/pf.conf? Can you post the contents of your /etc/pf.conf file?
What device is managing the DMZ? Is that a configuration on the router? I'm guessing that probably isn't the problem though.
Also here is my ssh.conf file Im not sure if the clear forwarding is supposed to be enabled, maybe you can see something wrong with it.
# $OpenBSD: ssh_config,v 1.26 2010/01/11 01:39:46 dtucker Exp $
# This is the ssh client system-wide configuration file. See
# ssh_config(5) for more information. This file provides defaults for
# users, and the values can be changed in per-user configuration files
# or on the command line.
# Configuration data is parsed as follows:
# 1. command line options
# 2. user-specific file
# 3. system-wide file
# Any configuration value is only changed the first time it is set.
# Thus, host-specific definitions should be at the beginning of the
# configuration file, and defaults at the end.
# Site-wide defaults for some commonly used options. For a comprehensive
# list of available options, their meanings and defaults, please see the
# ssh_config(5) man page.
Host *
SendEnv LANG LC_*
# Configuration options and default values (see ssh_config(5) for their meaning):
#
# Host # (no default)
# AddressFamily any
# AskPassGUI yes # (Apple only)
# BatchMode no
# BindAddress # (no default)
# ChallengeResponseAuthentication yes
# CheckHostIP yes
# Cipher 3des
# Ciphers aes128-ctr,aes192-ctr,aes256-ctr,arcfour256,arcfour128,aes128-cbc,3des-cbc,blowfish-cbc,cast128-cbc,aes192-cbc,aes256-cbc,arcfour
# ClearAllForwardings no
# Compression no
# CompressionLevel 6
# ConnectionAttempts 1
# ConnectTimeout # (no default)
# ControlMaster no
# ControlPath # (no default)
# ControlPersist no
# DynamicForward
# EnableSSHKeysign no
# EscapeChar ~
# ExitOnForwardFailure no
# ForwardAgent no
# ForwardX11 no
# ForwardX11Timeout 1200
# ForwardX11Trusted no
# XauthLocation xauth # Default is to search $PATH. It is recommended that a full path be provided.
# GatewayPorts no
# GlobalKnownHostsFile /etc/ssh/ssh_known_hosts,/etc/ssh/ssh_known_hosts2
# GSSAPIAuthentication no
# GSSAPIDelegateCredentials no
# GSSAPIKeyExchange no
# GSSAPITrustDNS no
# HashKnownHosts no
# HostbasedAuthentication no
# HostKeyAlgorithms
ecdsa-sha2-nistp256-cert-v01@openssh.com,
ecdsa-sha2-nistp384-cert-v01@openssh.com,
ecdsa-sha2-nistp521-cert-v01@openssh.com,
ssh-rsa-cert-v01@openssh.com,
ssh-dss-cert-v01@openssh.com,
ssh-rsa-cert-v00@openssh.com,
ssh-dss-cert-v00@openssh.com,ecdsa-sha2-nistp256,ecdsa-sha2-nistp384,ecdsa-sha2-nistp521,ssh-rsa,ssh-dss
# HostKeyAlias # (no default)
# HostName # (set by command at run-time)
# IdentitiesOnly no
# IdentityFile .ssh/id_rsa,.ssh/id_dsa
# IPQoS lowdelay
# KbdInteractiveAuthentication yes
# KbdInteractiveDevices # (no default)
# KexAlgorithms ecdh-sha2-nistp256,ecdh-sha2-nistp384,ecdh-sha2-nistp521,diffie-hellman-group-exchange-sha256,diffie-hellman-group-exchange-sha1,diffie-hellman-group14-sha1,diffie-hellman-group1-sha1
# LocalCommand # (no default)
# LocalForward # (no default)
# LogLevel INFO
# MACs hmac-md5,hmac-sha1,
umac-64@openssh.com,hmac-ripemd160,hmac-sha1-96,hmac-md5-96,hmac-sha2-256,hmac-sha2-256-96,hmac-sha2-512,hmac-sha2-512-96
# NoHostAuthenticationForLocalhost no
# NumberOfPasswordPrompts 3
# PasswordAuthentication yes
# PermitLocalCommand no
# PKCS11Provider # (no default)
# Port 22
# PreferredAuthentications gssapi-with-mic,hostbased,publickey,keyboard-interactive,password # (set by ssh at run-time)
# Protocol 2
# ProxyCommand # (no default)
# PubkeyAuthentication yes
# RekeyLimit 0
# RemoteForward # (no default)
# RequestTTY auto
# RhostsRSAAuthentication no
# RSAAuthentication yes
# SendEnv # (no default)
# ServerAliveCountMax 3
# ServerAliveInterval 0
# StrictHostKeyChecking ask
# TCPKeepAlive yes
# Tunnel no
# TunnelDevice any:any
# UsePrivilegedPort no
# User # (set by command at run-time)
# UserKnownHostsFile ~/.ssh/known_hosts,~/.ssh/known_hosts2
# VerifyHostKeyDNS no
# VisualHostKey no
# XAuthLocationi xauth