Not easily. Each Mac volume has its own hidden .Trashes folder. You could probably link it to another volume, but it could cause more trouble than it's worth - especially modifying your
startup drive.
Besides, .
Trashes, sort of by definition, is for temporary files - at best. By habit, I only keep stuff in there until the next time I can open its folder, stare at the files knowingly, then hit the empty button.
Unless you have a daily high workload, you should just use it and not worry about it. (for example, the Crucial M4 512 GB drive endurance is spec'ed at 72TB, or 40GB per day for 5 years - and I believe that's just to the point of a S.M.A.R.T warning, not failure. My understanding it's based on wear leveling stats, so it's not just "40GB" per day written - it's more a factor of how many blocks are erased when needing space to write 40GB.)
One thing you
can do is keep your working video/photos on the SSD while they're actively being used, then move then to the HDD. (keeping the SSD as your main startup drive with applications, user accounts, etc. - you can also tell iTunes to use an external HDD for its library, or leave the library and just move large movie files to the HDD.
Otherwise, leave the SSD be and just forget about it. You'll probably get antsy in a few years to upgrade it anyway
