I have a 5 month old MBP 2.16Ghz, 120GB HDD, Matte Screen, Superdrive, 3GB RAM, etc. Would it be ridiculous if I were to buy the new MBP 2.4Ghz and sell this one??? I hate not having the latest.
I have a 5 month old MBP 2.16Ghz, 120GB HDD, Matte Screen, Superdrive, 3GB RAM, etc. Would it be ridiculous if I were to buy the new MBP 2.4Ghz and sell this one??? I hate not having the latest.
If you have this compulsive tendancy..be very careful. Some people have dug themselves a deep hole of debt because of this and managed to ruin theirs and their families lives.
If you have this compulsive tendancy..be very careful. Some people have dug themselves a deep hole of debt because of this and managed to ruin theirs and their families lives.
Of course he should be careful when spending large amounts of money, but we should also be careful not to catastrophize the situation. The OP is using good self care by seeking the opinion of a group of people to gauge the rationality of his thoughts and potential behavior. To me that indicates a high level of maturity and insight.
I have a 5 month old MBP 2.16Ghz, 120GB HDD, Matte Screen, Superdrive, 3GB RAM, etc. Would it be ridiculous if I were to buy the new MBP 2.4Ghz and sell this one??? I hate not having the latest.
If you were being sarcastic (which I think you were) then I think you're hilarious! If not, I'm scared.
No, I was not being sarcastic. If you have obsessive thoughts and feel compelled to act on them, it really is a good idea to check those thoughts and feelings with other people, which is exactly why the OP posted this thread.
Let's say that I started coughing one morning and I became obsessed that I had tuberculosis and thought I need to go to an emergency room. I might be wise to say to a friend I started coughing and I'm having this thought that I might have tuberculosis. A person with OCD is aware in a part of their mind that their concerns don't have to do with reality. But sometimes they need to hear this from someone else to confirm that they really are OK. It's difficult to say exactly whether it's always appropriate in every instance since you can develop a need for assurances on every topic, which in and of itself can become a compulsive need.
But there are times when OCD has been with you for so long that at first breaking through it, it really is difficult to know what is appropriate and what is excessive. For example, if you had lived your life for 10 years washing your hands 200 times a day, you really have no concept of what would be an appropriate way to think about when hand washing is needed and when it's not. And that's when you consult reality: your friends, therapist, etc.