I am stunned that this has been reported for the last five years (or more) and yet Apple hasn't done anything about this, in the MANY software updates they have released. Why not just make this an option? Why force us to have it, if so many clearly don't want it??? Very odd. Seems like they would specifically care about customer feedback, since we are, after all, the one's keeping them in business. Guess they arrogantly believe we will simply keep using their products no matter what they do or fail to do!
BTW, don't recall this showing up, until I upgraded to Catalina. So maybe I have been dodging this bullet for years! But no more. Time to switch browsers!