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Ugh. My life sucks so much!

iParis

iParis

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Jul 29, 2008
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So I have been dating this girl for over five weeks then for some reason I notice her start to drifting away from me. Then it turns out what I was sensing was correct. Two days ago she left me for some guy she met at Warped Tour, and went to Warped Tour together! Ugh. Her reason for choosing him over me is that I apparently bug her and don't make her happy. I know I should be over it now but so many things keep reminding me and bringing me down. Going through her myspace bulletins and facebook statuses I can tell she is way more happy than me and is having a blast with her new boyfriend. I'm effing miserable while she's out slutting around.:(

Bleh. Sorry if I am just sounding like a little b*tch right now. I just need motivation, and a reason for living. And something to look forward to. :eek:

EDIT: Oh, and on top of this I just found out that two of the members of Panic at the Disco will be leaving the band!
 
Not what you want to hear, but it is teen angst
We all went through it ;)

Some of us are old, and we are still going though it :eek:

Woof, Woof - Dawg
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The new iPhone comes out in 2010. And it vaporizes manipulated backstabbing girls. :) Thats something to look forward to. :)

In all seriousness, life is better than you think. At least you got away from her now instead of later.

I was with a girl for 5 months. She broke up with me on my graduation day. She gave me little to no reason. Found out a few months ago she cheated on me with 4 guys. Had sex with 3 of them, hooked up with 1.

OH, AND I LOST MY VIRGINITY TO THIS GIRL

Wanna compare scars?
 
Unspoken Demise said:
The new iPhone comes out in 2010. And it vaporizes manipulated backstabbing girls. :) Thats something to look forward to. :)

In all seriousness, life is better than you think. At least you got away from her now instead of later.

I was with a girl for 5 months. She broke up with me on my graduation day. She gave me little to no reason. Found out a few months ago she cheated on me with 4 guys. Had sex with 3 of them, hooked up with 1.

Wanna compare scars?
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Oh sh*t. That does suck. Well, I'm pretty sure she cheated on me with this guy after Warped Tour. And there is no chance she would have had sex with anybody, she's still a virgin and whatnot.

Grr... well, none of my friends liked her anyways and all pretty much hated being around her.
 
I know it sucks, but you are 16. Life will go on and you will find someone. Oftentimes, opportunities will present themselves while you are not actively seeking them out. Be patient and enjoy your teen years.
 
iParis said:
Oh ****. That does suck. Well, I'm pretty sure she cheated on me with this guy after Warped Tour. And there is no chance she would have had sex with anybody, she's still a virgin and whatnot.

Grr... well, none of my friends liked her anyways and all pretty much hated being around her.
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OH, AND I LOST MY VIRGINITY TO THIS GIRL

You are so much better off without her. Life goes on. Shortly after that girl and I broke up, a good friend of mine was online on myspace. We hadnt talked in a while, but it was great catching up with her. She helped me through the break up and we started hanging out. She went through a break up and I was there for her.

Fast forward 13 months later, and she and I have been together for 11 months yesterday.

S*** happens, but at the end of the tunnel is a light. And now I've found the greatest girl in the world.

Im glad she broke up with me. It helped me see who Iwas really meant to be with.
 
Get off her FB and Myspace pages and stop checking up on her! Delete her as a friend and never look back. You've got to make a clean cut and move on. I'm not saying this is easy, but don't prolong the pain by peeking into her life on social networking sites. Break ups are like band-aids, don't pull it off slow and make it worse, just rip that sucker and get it over with!
 
mscriv said:
Get off her FB and Myspace pages and stop checking up on her! Delete her as a friend and never look back. You've got to make a clean cut and move on. I'm not saying this is easy, but don't prolong the pain by peeking into her life on social networking sites. Break ups are like band-aids, don't pull it off slow and make it worse, just rip that sucker and get it over with!
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Ditto. Do this OP! Delete, delete, delete! You'l be better off that way.
 
iParis said:
Grr... well, none of my friends liked her anyways and all pretty much hated being around her.
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Then forget her...hang with your friends. At your age girls come and go. Friendship can last forever. Ask them what they didn't like about her. They might give you some perspective that can help in future relationships.
 
I experienced something like this when I was 14.

You'll get over it. It's best if sooner than later.
 
If you treated her right and she was too stupid to realize it, why would you want to be with her? Think about it.



By treating her right I don't mean putting her on a pedestal.
 
mscriv said:
Get off her FB and Myspace pages and stop checking up on her! Delete her as a friend and never look back. You've got to make a clean cut and move on. I'm not saying this is easy, but don't prolong the pain by peeking into her life on social networking sites. Break ups are like band-aids, don't pull it off slow and make it worse, just rip that sucker and get it over with!
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Antares said:
Ditto. Do this OP! Delete, delete, delete! You'l be better off that way.
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But, she apparently still wants to stay friends.

Unspoken Demise said:
OH, AND I LOST MY VIRGINITY TO THIS GIRL

You are so much better off without her. Life goes on. Shortly after that girl and I broke up, a good friend of mine was online on myspace. We hadnt talked in a while, but it was great catching up with her. She helped me through the break up and we started hanging out. She went through a break up and I was there for her.

Fast forward 13 months later, and she and I have been together for 11 months yesterday.

S*** happens, but at the end of the tunnel is a light. And now I've found the greatest girl in the world.

Im glad she broke up with me. It helped me see who Iwas really meant to be with.
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Eh. Hopefully something like that will happen.

eawmp1 said:
Then forget her...hang with your friends. At your age girls come and go. Friendship can last forever. Ask them what they didn't like about her. They might give you some perspective that can help in future relationships.
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Apparently it's because she is really mean and controlling.
 
iParis said:
But, she apparently still wants to stay friends.

F*** that. You don't need people like her in your life. Move on.

Eh. Hopefully something like that will happen.

It will if you stay optimistic and enjoy life.

Apparently it's because she is really mean and controlling.

You should stop here before I start thinking we dated the same person.
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EDIT: Oh, and on top of this I just found out that two of the members of Panic at the Disco will be leaving the band!
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You better be kidding. Or the Emo word is going to showing up very VERY quickly.
 
iParis said:
But, she apparently still wants to stay friends.



Eh. Hopefully something like that will happen.



Apparently it's because she is really mean and controlling.
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eeek. She wants to stay "friends" because she's trying to soothe her own conscience about cheating on you. It won't be easy but I will echo everyone else's advice and say to forget her and move on. You will be much happier in the long run.
 
5 weeks and all this?

You're 16, there are going to be tons more girls and tons more heartbreaks. In the end you'll think you will die without the last until you find the next.

No girl is worth dying over ... and vice versa.
 
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