i found that i can right click to eject it and then i have the option in disk utility to mount it.
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what happened to me is that i had a 750Gb seagate HD that i might only boot from once a month to make sure it was still working and all the sudden it would disappear from my desktop within 30 seconds of startup. i went to disk utility and could see it there but it would keep saying it could do anything with it, repair, reformat, because it was busy. now i know im not running on it so i dont know what happened. i even installed it into a external HD case to see if i could get it to work, but again says its busy.