Not that I’d advocate such a thing, but it’s well known Apple doesn’t verify online student orders ( hypothetically speaking if you’re worried they might you could order it in his name and keep a scan of this student ID)
In addition there are re-shipping companies like shipito that have addresses in OR (no tax) that can reship whatever you ship to them
Whether reshipping would be worth it depends on what you’re buying luckily they have a shipping estimate calculator
( needs to guess at approx shipping dimensions & weight)
last time I reshipped something roughly the size and weight as 15” MBP it was about $40 and fedex but everyone is different