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has anyone got a link or something to the mobileme os x updater im running leopard 10.5.4 but it isnt appearing in software update for me

Go to the System Prefs and click the .Mac tab. Then try to sync or do an action and it should prompt you to open Software Update, which will magically contain the update now.
 
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