In order to clarify my question, I want to connect Address Book to a MobileMe account without using the MobileMe preference pane in System Preferences. I go to Address Book, open Preferences, click Accounts, click the + button (to add an account), select CardDAV as the account type (as I am assuming that is what MobileMe uses), enter my MobileMe Username and Password, and then I come to the Server Address... What is this address for MobileMe?
I can do these exact same steps in iCal and use "cal.me.com" as the server address. It works perfectly! But I can't seem to figure out the server address for use with Address Book.
Hope this makes sense..