hm....
for some reason i am thinking that the problem is actually your computer, and a conflict in itself and not ur DVR or another device....
if you don't have any settings in your router that you need (using it for ssh tunneling or server or anything else) then i would say reset the router to factory defaults, power down anything networked, unplug the interconnecting wires, reset any settings on your powerbook.
make sure everything is off.....
1) plug your modem back in then hold the reset but down for a good 10 seconds to reset it...
2) plug in your router and do the same with its reset button...
3) plug power into your DVR, AND THEN the ethernet interconnect, power it up, test it out, make sure it works
4) power up ur powerbook and see what happens....
if ur powerbook is jst using the dhcp server (which i would recommend unless
you play with your network a lot, or use any tunneling for gaming or servers or inbound/outbound routed traffic) then it will let your DVR take the 1.100, and the powerbook would jst take 1.101 or 1.102 depending on the DVR connections.....
i only use macs at work, so i dont get a chance to mess around with network
settings, so i dont know if there is any way to reset all of your airport settings to default....
if you need to keep all ur settings in your router and such....
you may jst want to try disabling airport, leaving the dvr up, but plugging the powerbook in hardwired, and see what IP the dhcp server assigns you, and then repost that back in this thread...