I have 4GB of RAM in a Mac Pro and my version of windows will only see 2 at the moment. Just have a niggling feeling that perhaps I should upgrade to Vista Pro 64.
Get Vista x64. It's worth it.
There is so much FUD about Vista it's not even funny. People whine and b!tch about it being slower/not working, but that was only the case when it was first released. Since SP1 came out and developers have released numerous drivers, Vista is like smooth butter. If you need a 64-bit Windows OS, it's the best.
XP 64-bit is a joke, even the biggest Microsoft lover will admit that.